How Involved Should You Be with Your Child’s Homework?

 

With the arrival of home-based learning, everything your child has to do for school seems to have become “homework”. Jokes aside, while your child still regularly receives assignments that he or she is expected to complete outside of lesson time, home-based learning is likely to have changed the dynamic between parent and child when it comes to dealing with homework.

For example, you may be more familiar now with your child’s homework than before as a result of spending more time with them at home. You may also have found yourself getting more involved with your child’s homework than before, and started to wonder if you’re going about things the right way.

The key, as always, is to strike and keep to the right balance. Here's some advice on how you can do so.

 

Gain Familiarity with Homework Assignments


Half a decade ago, it was the norm in Singapore for parents not to be involved with or understand their children’s homework.

But things have changed a lot since then. Today, parents take a far more active interest in what their children are learning in school and how best to help them succeed.

There is no doubt that as a parent you should be involved with your child’s homework. This runs the whole range from becoming familiar with the syllabus for each of your child’s subjects to reviewing their day to day workload and the quality of their work. Knowing what assignments your child has to complete makes for an easy starting point to open dialogue for setting goals, discussing progress, and working towards those goals together.

It also lets your child know that he or she is not alone in their learning journey, and that you are there for him or her. Keeping involved with and abreast of your child’s homework also puts the both of you in a better position to navigate the changes that come with moving up each successive step of the education system, as you will be able to make the necessary adjustments in a timely fashion.

 

Achieve the Right Balance


The big question then is one of degree: how involved should you be? Here, we find that it’s helpful for parents to keep in mind that being involved with your child’s homework is not exactly the same as helping them with their homework.

As we’ve just discussed, there are many ways of getting involved and offering support that do not require you to help directly with homework.

And helping too much with homework can turn out to be counter-productive, as it conditions your child to rely on your help all the time instead of learning to seek out answers and solve problems themselves — critical skills that they will need to succeed in school.

At the same time, being overly involved opens up the risk of putting unnecessary pressure on your child and potentially fracturing the parent-child relationship. While it’s natural for you to have expectations for your child’s academic performance, the last thing you want is to smother him or her with them by monitoring your child around the clock and constantly nitpicking.

At The Learning Lab, we believe the optimum balance is one that enables children to be active learners while giving them the security and support to try, fall and bounce back. This is a balance that in large part will have to be worked out between you and your child.

 

Seek Additional Support


But what if you’re not able to be as involved as you like because of the other parts of life getting in the way, whether it’s work commitments or simply that there aren’t enough hours in a day to do everything that needs to be done?

Or what if the assignments your child is struggling with have also left you stumped? That’s where we at The Learning Lab come in!

Our teachers are more than willing to help out with their students' school homework, and encourage students to bring any complex questions they encounter to class. There, they will teach students and their classmates how to go about (for English and Science) devising an answer for these questions or how to (for Maths) solve them using various methods.

This dynamic also allows our other students to gain exposure to a large range of question types and trends from other schools to make them more exam ready and well-rounded. As always, we encourage you and your child to think of us at TLL as your partners for each step of the way in your child’s academic journey. 

 

Build the Right Environment at Home for Study


Getting involved with your child’s homework brings many benefits, preparing you to better take on the all-important and multifaceted supporting role in your child’s education.

This is all the more crucial in a time when education in Singapore is experiencing significant change and disruption. 

At The Learning Lab, we are committed to equipping you and your child with the right tools and strategies for success through an educational philosophy that constantly renews itself according to changing needs while remaining grounded in core principles.

 


The Learning Lab is now at 8 locations. Find a location that suits your needs.

If you have any questions about our range of programmes or class schedules, you may contact us at 6733 8711 or drop us an email at enquiry@thelearninglab.com.sg.

 


 

The Learning Lab is now at 8 locations. Find a location that suits your needs.

If you have any questions about our range of programmes or class schedules, you may fill in the form below or contact us at 6733 8711 / enquiry@thelearninglab.com.sg.


 

Who was the best teacher you ever had? Which mentor immediately stands out as the one who has been most influential and inspirational in your life? This could have been a teacher from primary school, secondary school or junior college. It could be a tutor or even your dance instructor. Whoever it was, your teacher was someone who was an absolute master at helping you learn far more than you ever imagined possible.

Bring to mind a clear image of this remarkable teacher. Hear your teacher’s voice, concentrating on not only its unique cadence and tone but also something they have said that has stuck with you throughout all these years. Feel the inspiration that still lives within you as a result of your relationship with this teacher. Think about the personal qualities this person exuded that commanded your respect and reverence.

As you recall memories of this individual who was such a powerful role model in your life, it is likely that you can identify and list certain personal characteristics that were most memorable. As you review this list of qualities, it may surprise you to realise that very few of these notable attributes have to do with the content of what this teacher taught.

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As some of the most influential role models for developing students, teachers are responsible for more than just academic enrichment. If you want to be a great educator, you must connect with your pupils and reach them on multiple levels, because the best teachers are committed to their students’ well-being both inside and outside the classroom. By forging strong relationships, educators are able to affect virtually every aspect of their students’ lives, teaching them the important life lessons that will help them succeed beyond term papers and standardized tests.


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